Relay for Life Charity Auction

The Shop*Gasm Girls wish to invite you to purchase two hours of shopping and make over fun with them from the Relay For Life Charity Auction at Sixx Pack RIGHT NOW!!! That’s right Noon until whenever Sixx Packs staff (including the shop*gasm girls) will be auctioning their services for Charity. Come help us help a great cause!!!

Daring Denim Delights

I actually have TWO Denim adventures. But I was reminded (after initially posting the full ordeal) that I have to wait on the Jeans until we can shoot pics with a friend of ours so.. You’ll have to hang on to your britches! 

Well, that was the first, the second is from a completely different shop. +Grasp+ . I. LOVE. GRASP! They have some fantastic designs and STELLAR textures. My MAIN complaint is that they are obsessed with sculpties. I like sculpty prims as much as the next clothes horse but, you simply can’t make a shirt, a one prim sculpty, your boobs stick out the sides and you must make it about 4 sizes too big for your avatars body not to protrude from it. So, I’m going to give a thumbs down on the denim loose style shirt. BUT, The dress. Ohhh the dress. THAT is the hotness. I’m wearing the Denim Mini Dress in Light Blue from Grasp, I LOVE the detail on the texture! But you can take a look for yourself and see what you think. (not fond of the sculpty skirt but, it does okay)






Here I am with the Loose Denim Style shirt over the Mini Dress.






Front of the +Grasp+ Denim Mini Dress in Light Blue








Back of the +Grasp+ Denim Mini Dress in Light Blue






Hair – Chel – ETD (Sadly, ETD has closed indefinitely)

Skin, Shape, Bracers, Eyes – Mein

Lip Piercing – Skream! – The Beauty mark piercing

Necklace – Skream! - Sylvanas Bead&Chain Necklace

Earrings – Wicked Gear Ear Hardware

Shoes: DEF! – Ladyz Ankle Boots

Happy Shopping everyone

<3 ~N~ Hugs – R.D.

Customer Service = WIN

Suite was doing some pics and asked me to come shopping.. pfft, don’t have to ask me twice.. so I took the TP and landed at Blacklace. They had a few outfits advertised for blueblacklace_001 the Blue/Black fair at the store. You could click “buy” and it would give you a note card and LM to their booth at the fair for the outfits for 0L. Great, except that there was an oopsie and if you clicked “pay” instead of “buy” it charged you the price of the outfit.

Luckily however, Gemini, one of the customer service representatives for BlackLace was online and available to assist. She came right over and fixed the kiosk for the outfit I purchased as well as checked the others to make sure this doesn’t happen again. She also had the outfit delivered directly to me (Yay for not having to blueblacklacefight the lag at the fair)

So basically, what I’m saying is, not only does BL provide stellar garments for you, but they  also provide so efficient and pleasant customer service. Gemini was a peach to work with!

So, I suppose you want to see what all the fuss was about huh? Well, I have to say, I adore this set. It’s VERY well done. No seams on the sides or anything, which is very important to a photographer, as it doesn’t limit poses because the garment is perfection right down to the prim bows and gems on the tops of the garters! There are multiple layer options as well, which is fantastic for those who wear tattoos etc… Overall, two daggers up!

~Happy Shopping ~ R.D.

SL to RL to SL to RL to SL to RL OMG!!!

So, as this is a fashion blog, and we have A LOT of fetish types in Second Life, I thought I’d feature a website I stumbled across in my searches of random shit. collars1

Dogs wear collars. They wear them so that us average humans can identify their name, owners phone number, or address, and current vaccines. Similarly, well, aside from vaccines, submissive in a D/s community will wear collars to identify as well…

As most of you know, in the D/s world, a collar is everything. Or at least for some it is. The collar can represent so much to so many. Safety, Comfort, Belonging, Sex… mostly I’ve realized that in SL, it is associated with those who are not necessarily living a D/s lifestyle, but wish to convey the portrayal of “Kink” with their partners.

No matter the reason for wearing the collar, whether you’re the “Hot Topic” wearing type, or are engaged in RL D/s relationships… a collar is simply, a collar. Like a ring, it’s the meaning behind the item that leads us down our paths…

So yeah, now, back to my random… or was that my random… this website I stumbled across is a RL customize your own collar site. It has multiple options from straps to buckles to studs or gems, color and size… it’s simply an amazing site. Not only can you buy collars but they do custom belts and cuffs as well.

So for all of you out there, looking to further your adventure, or maybe start one… Check CFLogoout :) 

Now, if only someone in SL could do a create your own collar thing. That’d be cool :)

3 Outfits, 1 Day = EPIC WIN!

I know I know I know, I have been a slacker, a HUGE slacker, but with RL and my SL commitments, and having way too much damn fun, can ya blame me? *eyes her sisters to not say a word!*

Today I bring you 3 outfits of EPIC WIN! 


Pictured here is a very elegant off the shoulder top called Fleur De Lis.   It is a wonderfully textured dark blue low cut, yet still classy top.  It also comes with optional cuffs (not pictured).  I have paired it with the NEW RELEASE Jeans also from WG  $195L Black Low Dress Jean.  The prim attachments are well built and detailed to make it look almost seamless as much as you can in SL *giggles*.  This outfit is great if you are looking for something well made, and something along the more casual line of dress on the grid.  WG has a lot of great product ranging from classy to down right scandalous, and as always, with a target for the discerning shopper who doesn't want to spend a ton of L’s to look good.Great Job guys, and thank you to Sophia for the heads up on some GREAT items ;)


Don’t get it twisted when you search for “Delirium” in your search bar.  This is the ORIGINAL place for the best URBAN Gear on the grid as far as I am concerned!  Pictured to the left is their outfit called “Epica”, it has quite a few options as Christel Morane usually gives to all her items.  This item was courtesy of a Group Challenge.  Splixxen Miles woke us all up with a question about one of their many ensembles and yours truly was the first one to answer correctly (who is not a member of DS Staff).  I was able to choose one outfit for my answer, and I chose “Epica” – shes cute, flirty, and damn makes your curves go POW.  Delirium is currently having a group discount sale on their SIM, so get your butts down there, join the group and have a blast, trust me, you will love it.


Shop*Gasm Girls are huge fans of Pacadi Jasha’s  Lotta Shelman, so I was all over it when I received this pretty item to blog.  Just in time for summer, they have released a small summer themed line that you can pick up by visiting the GOLden Shopping district.  No they haven’t reopened their SIM sadly, but perhaps one day :)  This fun and romantic pink piece is called Alis, it also comes in a very dark green and a light blue (if I remember correctly).  The ripples of the fabric on the texturing just blew me away, its so well constructed, it made me squee!  I have been wearing this around the grid all morning!  No lie, I have pictures to prove it, I just hope my butt doesn't get banned.  Anyways, back to the lingerie.  *drools*  I LOVE the heart that PJ puts into their outfits and this is no different.  Quality items for a reasonable price, who couldn’t say know to breaking the “Don’t buy the fat pack, just cause” Rule.

So there ya have it folks.  Tons of options to be had this Monday morning, and THANK YOU to all those who gave me inspiration to blog once again.  More often than not I head to the feeds for some sort of kick start, but they have been so lacking the last few months, nothing has made my jaw drop quite like these.  So wherever you are, whatever you are doing, have a fabulous Monday!  ♥ Suite.

The Beautiful People

RoselynnDarkstoneDark As I write this, I’m actually DJing at a strip club in the skin I’m about to tell ya about. Looking around at the various skins adorning the room. It’s inspired me to talk about one of the reasons I chose the skin I am in.  Now, I know a lot of you are going to be like “This bish done lost her mind”. Well HA! To you. I never had it to begin with. *grins*

Skin places are so focused on making these model perfect skins and avi’s that it’s almost impossible to tell one avatar from the other with exception to the name over their heads. My theory on this is as follows, if I confuse this I’m sorry, my mind is spinning in like 12 directions right now… basically what I’m thinking is, with all these perfect little avi’s running around the grid, it’s hard for folks to really see a sense of unique interpretation. Our flaws are what make us who we are. Tattoos help to define the skin as your own. And that’s a start, but I love this skin, why? It’s got scars, bruises and what not. It is unique and best of all, it isn’t perfect. Just like me. I am not perfect. In any sense of the word. And so, I love Frick’s Fisticuffs skin. See it for yourself. It’s fantastic. I’m going to drop some pictures for you to see. I would LOVE to see more skin designers add little imperfections to the skins to make them a bit more personable.








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Shop*gasm is a creation from the twisted warped mind of at least 2 people with shopping a.d.d. and the mind of one person who loves to tag along and will one day have a computer fast enough to keep up.

Kilolo Jenkins
Roselynn Darkstone
Suitelady DeCuir

This blog is a project that was birthed out of three sisters and friends wanting to do something together that we could all enjoy and share.

The contributors of Shop*gasm are consumers. We like to shop. Correction...we LOVE to shop. For the most part, we blog our purchases. Maybe not every single one, but definitely something we find noteworthy.

On the off chance we're given items for review, we're thankful. But like other blog sites, we can not guarantee that your item will be blogged, nor will we guarantee that our review of items are always going to be favorable. What we will guarantee is an open and honest blog for you to read, with just enough moxie and personality to make you either hate it or love it. LOL

Hopefully you'll find the blog just as fun and awesome as we have in creating it :)